The holiday season can be a meaningful time for everyone involved in a surrogacy journey. For intended parents, this season offers a special opportunity to show appreciation, strengthen communication, and support your surrogate in ways that feel thoughtful and genuine. Below are a few gentle, practical ways to stay connected during the holidays.
Showing Appreciation in Small Ways
A simple message can go a long way. A card, a handwritten note, or a small, thoughtful gift — nothing extravagant — can help your surrogate feel seen and appreciated. Thoughtful gestures can help remind your surrogate that she is doing something extraordinary, and that you recognize the weight and generosity of that commitment. If you’re unsure what to say, sincerity is enough. A short message like “Thinking of you this season and grateful for everything you’re doing” can mean more than you’d expect.
Showing Support During the Holidays
Holidays are busy, emotional, and unpredictable. A quick check-in can offer reassurance and support, reminding her she’s not navigating this period alone. Keeping the message simple and low-stakes gives her room to engage in whatever way feels right for her during this busy time.
Holding Space for Complex Feelings
The surrogacy process is emotionally rich on its own, and the holidays can bring those feelings even closer to the surface. Your surrogate might be reflecting on the year, navigating family gatherings, or experiencing ups and downs that shift from day to day.
Rather than trying to resolve anything, recognizing the complexity of this time and responding with calm, genuine empathy can make a real difference.
We’re Here for You This Season (and All Seasons)
Surrogacy is a shared journey, and thoughtful support can help everyone feel more connected during the holidays. If you’re an intended parent looking for additional guidance, resources, or compassionate support, the team at International Surrogacy Center is here to help.
Our team has years of experience supporting both surrogates and intended parents with care that is clear, respectful, and relationship-centered. If you’re ready to learn more or want individualized support as you move forward, visit International Surrogacy Center to connect with our team.